全民情敌

非常非常喜欢这部从结构、叙事、导演手法各方面都很成熟了，明显看得出来导演的进步《情话童真》《安娜与国王》都是单线的线性的叙事但是全民情敌里就有两条明线（斯密斯和女主、斯密斯指导的胖会计师和名媛）和一条暗线（女主闺蜜的情感归属）而且这三条线互相交错，互相推进故事情节。

后面两条线既是起着讲述故事主题“真诚的爱情“的作用、同时也给故事主线男女主的爱情制造着误会或者推动等剧情冲突、还从两方面烘托且分别展示男女主的形象、工作等各方面人设。

从出场起就没有一个人物是浪费的，而且前面会埋下非常细小的伏笔，在故事后段展示出来导演手法好赞男女主我也非常喜欢，女主身材好爆，独立自强自信，又勇于面对感情，不会莫名其妙的作来作去。

配角那对虽然不匹配，但是爱情写的也很有说服力，蛮感人的，不会有硬凹感。

胖会计师虽然笨拙的无法直视，但真是对名媛特别好特别贴心，而且一到关键场合就奇妙的神发挥，不会让人有尴尬恐惧症。

这部真心好看。

虽然喜剧元素不会少，不过整体其实蛮正式蛮浪漫的。

显然，这部影片想要探讨当代美国年轻人爱情观上的变化，尝试探究其原因的同时给出解决方案。

现代女性主义意识的觉醒，她们专注于事业，在恋爱这件事上会更保守。

相应地男性会花更多时间去揣测女孩的心理，因为他们不知道自己怎样的言行会惹得女孩不开心而导致约会落空。

在影片中，hitch的约会咨询象征着市场提供的解决方案，然而影片最后告诉我们市场化运作的参与实际上反而加剧了女性的不安全感。

还有一个因素，父权社会下对女性的凝视仍然存在，影片中的内衣男有一段台词，"象征权力的西装与金钱，人们会退缩，哭泣，恳求，但最后都会照我的意思去做"，导演对这种社会顽固现象的回应也是大快人心，那就是 go to ass。

接下来我会从阿伯特和莎拉的故事来批评一下这部电影，即对爱情截面的剖析还是太过于浅显了。

萨拉是当红名媛，而阿伯特是资产管理者，两者在社会地位上没有显著的差异。

我们看的不是罗密欧与朱丽叶，挡在这两个人之间的不是世俗和家族的反对，而是奥伯特不知道如何创造机会以及萨拉对阿伯特的信任问题，而在其他方面两个人情投意合的过于巧合，萨拉就喜欢阿伯特的可爱坦诚，而阿伯特天然喜欢萨拉(在电影中，我只get到阿伯特认为萨拉是他的天命真女至于why，咋们不得而知)，两人刚突破第一个信任危机的困难就直接跳到最后结婚啦。

所以我会认为说导演为突出反对市场化带入爱情的这个主题而给观众画了一个理想主义的蛋糕，真实的爱情没有这般的坦途。

然后还是由我来对这部电影进行辩护。

对于上面观点，我想重申这是一部荒诞爱情喜剧电影。

剧中的阿伯特有一紧张愤怒就会反应过度的特点，他还会跳调皮可爱的舞蹈，但正如hitch所说的这只是阿伯特冰山之上的十分之二，而萨拉作为有良好教育和背景的名媛，不会肤浅的流于表面，看重的是阿伯特的热情和真心，所以两人能最后走到一起并没有什么意料之外的地方。

另外，电影是经典的古典好莱坞叙事，合家结局大家都喜欢，事实上这部电影上映后名利双收。

我最后还想探讨一点的是喜剧的内核是悲剧，正如你说的生活中的爱情十有八九不如意，但是影片中展现的爱情能让人暂时从冰冷残酷的现实中抽离出来，开心一下重新唤起对爱情的美好向往，你能说这不是件好事嘛？

多少人在还没有向自己的女神表白之前，就已经输了！

一个恰当的机会，一个完美的邂逅是多么的重要。

才不会让爱在萌芽阶段就被否定。

约会医生帮助那些真爱的人，创造一个机会，给真爱的机会。

为别人制造浪漫的同时，希奇也给了自己找到一一个独一无二的姑娘，那么强势有那么可爱。

一个意外的曝光给了他们重新认识自己的机会。

希奇终于认识到真爱不是工作，萨拉也终于了解自己看问题总是太过片面。

而希奇正在帮助的艾伯特，因为自己的本性赢得了白富美艾歌蕾的心。

真爱不是小诡计就能够骗得到的，或许开始的时候耍了点小心计，但是最终真正感动你的一定是那个人的真诚，实心实意。

这部片子幽默又轻松，却又在搞笑的同时给你一点温柔，让人愿意放下心胸尝试着接纳别人。

回想一下有多少人正是因为没有约会医生帮助创造的那一个完美的机会，自己错过了多少姻缘。

正是因为邂逅的时候不够完美而错过了多少对的人。

爱就是这样，难以捉摸，对的时间，对的人总是那么难！

如果没有技巧没有机缘，你是否会注意到你身边的好男人呢。

美丽的女影星先毫不犹豫地说，yes,之后忧郁，只好强自辩白说，至少，eventually。

身边的人那么多，真正知道名姓的有几个，若真正肯于耐下心来聊几句，了解一下来处去处的，便更是寥寥了。

我便是要相信缘分的那个，一定要因缘巧合，厌恶一切的人为安排，只是这样一想，便觉实在是有些天真。

喜欢这剧扮八卦女记者的eva，虽然有些胖，但大眼睛，深色皮肤，却看来是聪明的。

也许现代的人真是太自我保护了，小心翼翼如履薄冰，皆是缺乏了安全感的表现。

但，饶是这样也免不了在不起眼处受暗伤，so，you can never be too protected.如分手专家相似编排，当专家遇上专家，我等闲人看热闹同时也能赚上点理论知识。

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完美商业片hitch，剧本+演员+制作商业片往往有它必有的一些特点。

而这些特点，往往容易成为一些套路，这些套路，在刚刚开始的时候，是经过了成功的观众反响所检验的，然而看得多了，就免不了审美疲劳所以，现在的好看的电影，除了要满足既定的一些商业套路之外，还必须要推陈出新，要有相当的新意出来。

套路+创意，才是现在电影讲故事的办法这部影片hitch，就是套路+创意 非常成功的电影。

在剧本、演员、制作配乐方面，都非常的棒。

虽然这样的电影不大会有石破天惊的效果，但作为富有新意的都市剧和爱情剧，都是很不错的谈几点好的电影，剧本非常非常的重要。

这个剧本，可以看出好莱坞剧本作者成熟的、高超的技巧与功力在一开头，我们就看到有这样一个奇特的职业——帮助男人泡妞的咨询顾问。

主角的话：我的工作是open her eyes，让她可以看见你这样新奇的创意，老实说，在电影中并不算得出色，事实上，韩剧中有更多的更丰富的类似的创意，比如有部韩国电影主角的工作是帮别人分手但是，韩国人有了这样的创意之后，却并没有如此高超的剧本技巧，能够把一个故事讲得如此的丰满和动人。

在这一点上，不得不佩服的，梦工厂毕竟是梦工厂，中国与韩国的剧本创作都还需要向他们学习。

演员。

男女主角都非常的到位，不必说了。

而其中的头号头配角，那个大胖子，演技非常的出彩。

这样的轻松电影中，一个出丑的配角是必须的，正因为如此，才会挑一个大胖子而不是一个帅哥来演这个角色。

但这个角色把小丑配角演出了新的境界，与以往好莱坞电影中那些刻意出丑和唠叨不止的配角不一样。

这个配角演得生动、丰满到最后，最给人留下深刻印象的，反而是这个配角。

而不是男女主角。

因为男女主角反正都一样的，永远是那样，那样的气质，那样的漂亮，那样的不错的职业化的演技后期制作，一向是美国电影的强项。

包括情节的安排、镜头的切换，配乐，好莱坞在这方面是最成熟的。

全世界的商业电影都在向他们学习。

但是还有很多地方学得不到位。

在情节的切换上，现代的电影讲究的是快速推进故事，情节快速的切换，唰唰的切换镜头。

上一节刚刚说完，立刻就跳跃到下一个情节。

并伴随着跳跃度非常大的乐曲，这是给人留下深刻映像的

一个人的情人节刚过，选择这样一个下午看Will Smith的 《Hitch》（又名：《全民情敌》）这样一部轻松幽默的爱情喜剧，多少有点冲淡孤寂的意味。

影片一开始就展现了整片节奏明快，语言幽默的基调，“约会医生”这一称谓真好，我们意识中模模糊糊的浪漫爱情，被解构成一道道简单、直接、高效的技巧与公式，只要你选择特定的时间、场景与动作（而不是我们平常所认为的那样：语言），就像科学公式一样，条件齐备，就一定能达到浪漫爱情的终点：抱得美人归！

Will Smith扮演的Hitch真是睿智而幽默，在他初见女主角Sara（Eva Mendes）的时候，在酒吧里解除sara的被人调戏的场景，两人的对话，已经占据每一位女观众的心！

而在他带她各自骑着摩托艇鱼跃于哈德逊河的时候，又让大家不禁眼前一亮：摩托艇，一贯在电影里出现的时候，都是警察在追捕罪犯，虽然惊险刺激，不免有些陈词滥调，却原来摩托艇也有这样激情与浪漫并存的一面！

当Hitch托朋友找到Sara先祖的亲笔签名以后，Sara激动到落泪……好浪漫啊！

浪漫不是花前月下，不是阳光海滩，不是拥吻，而是，有一个人，真真实实在乎你！

为你而去努力！

印象很深的一个镜头：胖子Albert送女明星cole回家，胆怯的Albert不敢亲吻cole，转身离去的时候，我看见，准备开门的cole，低着头，微微地一声叹息……因为，即使是女明星如她，对爱情，也是有期待的吧！

笨手笨脚的阿尔伯特拿着快餐垃圾，扭着屁股走下台阶，突然回过头来说：You know what it's like getting up every morning feeling hopeless ? Feeling like the love of your life is waking up with the wrong man?But at the same time, hoping that she atill find happiness, evev if it's never be with you.我突然就被感动了，“癞蛤蟆想吃天鹅肉”这句话完全不适合阿尔伯特，因为在他的眼里没有欲望，只有渴望，渴望付出、渴望看到自己爱的人快乐，哪怕自己只是一个旁观者，也会心甘情愿。

Hitch和阿尔伯特在大门口练习那段真是太搞笑了，我爱死了Will的表情，在我看来，Hitch就是一位堕入凡间的爱情天使，当然他要比《爱情呼叫转移》里的天使刘仪伟强多了，至少他这个工作需要亲力亲为，而非一部足以让人抓狂的奇怪手机。

Life is not the amount of breaths you take, it's the moments that take your breath away. Often falsely attributed George Carlin, American comedian[citation needed] Never lie, steal, cheat, or drink. But if you must lie, lie in the arms of the one you love. If you must steal, steal away from bad company. If you must cheat, cheat death. And if you must drink, drink in the moments that take your breath away. Begin each day like it was on purpose. So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows... but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you're enjoying your life, and the next you're wondering how you ever lived without them. Basic Principles - no woman wakes up saying "God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today!" Now, she might say "This is a really bad time for me," or something like "I just need some space," or my personal favorite "I'm really into my career right now." You believe that? Neither does she. You know why? 'Cause she's lying to you, that's why. You understand me? Lying! It's not a bad time for her. She doesn't need any space. And she may be into her career, but what she's really saying is "Uh, get away from me now," or possibly "Try harder, stupid," but which one is it? 60% of all human communication is nonverbal body language; 30% is your tone, so that means 90% of what you're saying ain't coming out of your mouth. Of course she's going to lie to you! She's a nice person! She doesn't want to hurt your feelings! What else she going to say? She doesn't even know you... yet. Luckily, the fact is that just like the rest of us, even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants until she sees it, and that's where I come in. My job is to open her eyes. Basic Principles - no matter what, no matter when, no matter who... any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet; he just needs the right broom. No guile, no game... No girl [to Albert after his dancing exhibition] Don't need no pizza. They've got food there. [to Albert] One dance, one look, one kiss, that's all we get, Albert. Just one shot, to make the difference between "happily ever after" and “Oh? He’s just some guy I went to some thing with once.” Because that's what people do. They leap, and hope to God they can fly, because otherwise you just drop like a rock, wondering the whole way down, why in the *hell* did I jump? But here I am, Sarah, falling, and there's only one person who makes me feel like I can fly... That's you. I'm a guy. Since when do we get anything right the first time? I'm like a vault baby, locked down! Don't...ever...do that again! I saw that going differently in my mind. [last lines] Basic principles - there are none.

本来是想看喜剧，结果却看了个把妹攻略，实在是意外。

最近可能是工具类的书籍看多了，电影里的很多细节也不禁让我和工具论联系在一起。

首先，这个电影开头便说：you can get it if you really want it. 然后就围绕这个主线开始编了。

当然，中国有很多励志类的书籍强调“心”的作用，好像只要你够tough，什么事情都可以做成。

我历来不是很推崇这种唯心论，也不大赞赏“只要功夫深，铁杵磨成针”这类的苦口婆心。

按照我做事情的经验，我觉得除了情商，还必须要有智商。

因此，方法和工具都是十分重要的因素。

失败不是成功之母，方法和工具才是。