缘分天注定

庄君纳顿.卓加……有线体育台优秀监制既失红颜，复破婚盟肝肠寸断，遂于昨宵撒手尘寰享年三十有五庄君文质彬彬，公而忘私平素言行，绝无痴态孰料，阳寿将尽之际……流露鲜为人知之浪漫刹那惊艳，化作萦回梦魂遍觅芳踪，历尽一波三折本性情怀，浮现无遗呜呼，踏破铁鞋……方觉一番心事悉付东流语云：匹夫可以夺其爱……不可夺其志庄君依然坚信……人生际遇绝非偶然冥冥中，上苍早已安排周详丝毫不爽其友文坛巨擘……时报主笔甸恩谓……庄君晚年脱胎换骨有所顿悟一言以蔽之……欲臻天人合一……须坚信一字此字古已有之于今亦然，唯“缘”而已Jonathan Trager, Prominent television producer for ESPN, died last night from complications of losing his soul mate and his finance.He was 35 years old and soft-spoken and obsessive. Trager never looked the part of a hopeless romantic, but in the final days of his life, he revealed an unknown side of his psyche. This hidden quasi-Junqian person a surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long-reputed soul mate, a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with.Sadly, The protracted search ended late Saturday night in complete and utter failure.Yet even in certain defeat, the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences uh-uh, but rather it’s a tapestry of events that culminate in an exquisite, sublime plan.Asked about the loss of his dear friend, Dean Kansky, the Pulitzer Prize-winning author and executive editor of the New York Times described Jonathan as a changed man in the last days of his life, “things were clearer for him” Kansky noted.Ultimately, Jomathan concluded that if we are to live life in harmony with the universe, we must all possess a powerful faith in what the ancients used to call “fatum”, what we currently refer to as destiny.

Jonathan Trager,prominent television producer for ESPN,died last night from complications of losing his soul mate and his fiance.He was 35 years old and soft-spoken and obsessive.Trager never looked the part of a hopless romantic.But in the final days of his life,he revealed an unknown side of his psyche.This hidden quasi-Jungian persona...surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long-reputed soul mate,a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with.Sadly,the protracted search ended late Saturday night...incomplete and utter failure.Yet even in certain defeat,the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief...that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences.Uh-uh.But rather it's a tapestry of events...that culminate in an exquisite,sublime plan.Asked about the loss of his dear friend, Dean Kansky,the Pulitzer Prize-winning author and executive editor of the New York Times,described Jonathan as a changed man in the last days of his life."Things were clear for him,"Kansky noted.Ultimately, Jonathan concluded that if we are to live life in harmony with the universe,we must all possess a powerful faith in what the ancients used to call"fatum,"-what we currently refer to as destiny.壮纳顿-卓加，有线体育台优秀监制。

即失红颜，复破婚盟，肝肠寸断，遂于昨宵撒手尘寰，享年三十有五，壮君文质彬彬，公尔忘私，平素言行，绝无痴态，孰料，阳寿将尽之际．流露鲜为人知的浪漫，刹那惊绝，化作萦回梦魂，遍觅芳踪，历尽一波三折，本性情怀，浮现无遗，呜呼，踏破铁鞋。

方觉一番心事付东流，语云：匹夫可以夺其爱，不可夺其志，壮君依然信．人生际遇绝非偶然，冥冥中，上苍早已安排周详，丝毫不爽，其友文坛巨掰，时报主笔甸恩谓.壮君晚年脱胎换骨，有所顿悟，一以蔽之．欲臻天人合一，须信一字，此字古已有之，于今亦然，唯“缘”而已。

看过这片子，我不得不把它和另外几部电影联系起来，《毕业生》、《西雅图夜未眠》、《电子情书》。

基本都是一个套路，男女主角心心相印，婚姻或现有感情阻碍，抛弃一切去追求爱情的大结局。

很多年前我看那几部片子，也觉得很棒，全力支持男女主角放弃婚姻追求爱情的决定，这种感觉是世界上最美好的东西，他们应该挣脱婚姻的枷锁追求自己想要的东西。

我支持他们！

但很多年后的今天来看这部"Serendipity"，可能是年纪大了，心里装的事情多了。

我越来越不认同这样的追求。

当Sara听到John取消了婚礼而笑着流泪，我甚至不知道她为谁流泪，为John的女朋友而悲哀么？

不像！

为自己庆幸么？

如果是，那这几滴眼泪未免太残忍，尽管这残忍不是她亲手造成的。

当Sara和John在溜冰场最终相遇，那一幕确实很唯美，呈现了美国大片惯常使用的全部浪漫元素。

场景、音乐、男女主角都高度契合。

但我当时脑子里想的却是Sara在这一幕过去后要怎么去和她的未婚夫交代，她的未婚夫会做何反应，以及John取消婚礼的时候她的女友是怎样心痛。

那另一个男人和另一个女人的悲伤也许不是电影主要表现的东西，可能十分之九的人在看电影的时候都不愿去多想他们，但谁能否认这份天注定的缘分对那二位真够残忍的。

以如此悲哀为代价的浪漫，真的是美丽的么？

对于Sara和John来说，即使他们最终没有相遇，其实他们也已经够幸福了，有浪漫的邂逅去回味，有美满的婚姻去享受。

这些东西不是每个人都能够拥有的。

不管怎样，我只希望这样的情节不要经常发生在现实生活中，更不要有人因为看了这样的电影而去实践。

不过KB还是很漂亮，支持！

而且里面纽约和旧金山的许多地点让我想念起在美国的日子，那很多熟悉的场景都历历在目，尤在昨日。

　　很早的片子，但最近才才买来ＤＶＤ看．一个是＜Ｃon Air＞中干练帅气的探员，一个是在＜Underworld＞里酷得不行的性感吸血鬼,是我喜欢的组合．其实这部影片的很多桥段都可以在,等同类型的爱情片中寻得,<向左走，向右走>中也有类似擦间而过的缘分。

尽管拍得很媚俗，但也能带来充分的愉悦感．谁不喜欢浪漫温馨的故事呢？

即使编剧很刻意的制造浪漫．　　爱情的部分不需多言，印象最深刻的台词是死党为男主角写的“悼言”，实则为本片主题的精髓所在。

中文字幕翻译得恰到好处：Dean: Jonathan Trager, prominent television producer for ESPN, died last night from complications of losing his soul mate and his fiance. He was thirty-five years old. Soft-spoken and obsessive, Trager never looked the part of a hopeless romantic. But in the final days of his life, he revealed an unknown side of his psyche. This hidden quasi-Jungian persona surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long, reputed soul mate; a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with. Sadly, the protracted search ended late Saturday night in complete and utter failure. Yet even in certain defeat, the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences. Uh-uh. But rather, it is a tapestry of events that culminate into an exquisite, sublime plan. Ask about the loss of his dear friend, Dean Kansky, the Pulitzer Prize-winning author and executive editor of New York Times, described Jonathan as a changed man in the last days of his life. Things were clearer for him, Kansky noted. Ultimately, Jonathan concluded that if we are to live life in harmony with the universe we must all possess a powerful faith, of what the ancients used to call fatum; what we currently refer to as destiny.乔纳森卓加，有线体育台优秀监制，即失红颜，复破婚盟，肝肠寸断，遂于昨宵撒手尘寰，享年三十有五，壮君文质彬彬，公尔忘私，平素言行，绝无痴态，孰料，阳寿将尽之际．．．．．．流露鲜为人知的浪漫，刹那惊绝，化作萦回梦魂，遍觅芳踪，历尽一波三折，本性情怀，浮现无遗，呜呼，踏破铁鞋．．．．．．方觉一番心事付东流，语云：匹夫可以夺其爱，不可夺其志，壮君依然坚信．．．．．．人生际遇绝非偶然，冥冥中，上苍早已安排周详，丝毫不爽，其友文坛巨掰，时报主笔甸恩谓．．．．．．壮君晚年脱胎换骨，有所顿悟，一以蔽之．．．．．．欲臻天人合一，须信一字，此字古已有之，于今亦然，唯“缘”而已。

个人看法，当凯特·贝金塞尔走进房间，地板上铺满花瓣，门打开的时候飞起来。

熟悉的房间里有温暖的烛光，风从背后吹来。

一个大盒子，里面有一层一层的小盒子。

她欣喜若狂打开一个又一个，最后最小的一个里面放着戒指，然后那个老好人男友走出来问她will you marry me?也许细节有些出入，毕竟很早以前看的了。

可是始终记得这是我所见过最美最浪漫的一次proposal。

后来还有Johnnason（广东腔，翻译成庄仔……）和女主角——Sara？

实在想不起来叫什么了——在溜冰场，漆黑的天空作背景，飘起温暖柔软的圣诞夜的雪花。

我没见过雪，大概跟冰箱里的差不多吧？

可是那时候我觉得雪应该很美，甜的，软的，呼吸一般，你不要它，它就消散了。

穿短裙的女孩在微笑，他们坐在长椅上，星空在头顶闪烁，说了什么我都忘记了。

又或者是《美丽心灵的永恒阳光》里，头发染得五颜六色的女孩子在Kim大叔旁边躺着，躺在结冰的湖面上，手牵手怀念着那些难以被救赎就要擦除的时光。

冬季变成了温暖的呵出的气，融化进手心。

雨后夜晚街道温暖的霓虹闪烁，城市以它独特的气息抚慰着孤独的人心。

当然，还有爱情。

大大小小的故事不断上演，他们在街头拥吻，吵架，奔跑，跌倒；他们在命运中相遇，轮回，错过。

一场小雪过后湿漉漉的地面上闪烁着暖黄的街灯，渴望回家就像渴望在爱情温暖疲倦的臂弯里一场酣眠。

那多少有些无可救药的浪漫和决绝。

有时候我想人们只是需要一点弱智的美式浪漫，甜到心里头。

Jonathan Trager,prominent television producer for ESPN,died last night from complications of losing his soul mate and his fiance.He was 35 years old and soft-spoken and obsessive.Trager never looked the part of a hopless romantic.But in the final days of his life,he revealed an unknown side of his psyche.This hidden quasi-Jungian persona...surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long-reputed soul mate,a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with.Sadly,the protracted search ended late Saturday night...in complete and utter failure.Yet even in certain defeat,the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief...that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences.Uh-uh.But rather it's a tapestry of events...that culminate in an exquisite,sublime plan.Asked about the loss of his dear friend, Dean Kansky,the Pulitzer Prize-winning author and executive editor of the New York Times,described Jonathan as a changed man in the last days of his life."Things were clear for him,"Kansky noted.Ultimately, Jonathan concluded that if we are to live life in harmony with the universe,we must all possess a powerful faith in what the ancients used to call"fatum,"-what we currently refer to as destiny.

Serendipity! 很棒的一部片子！

它在描述所谓激情，所谓缘分，所谓命中注定！

《心火》中索菲•玛索在抽泣：“我不知道意念的力量可以这么强大！

”是的，当你的心一直强烈呼唤，生命一定会有回应，只要你足够坚持，足够耐心！

说起来很难。

片中的男女主人翁从彼此的生命中错失，茫茫人海只剩下一个若有若无的符号。

他是Johnson，她是Sarah，再遇的几率渺茫至极，大海捞针用来形容空间的难度，何况他们还隔着时间，几年寒暑，在一起感情也可能变质，更何况彼此独立的生活，当然不可能没有故事只为你守候，Johnson在筹备婚礼，Sarah也收到求婚戒指，——但是，真的不是因为她（他）不够好，不过是因为我放不下！

一本书，一个地方，一张电影海报，一个不具任何意义的生活细节也会让他们想起彼此。

这些细节不是什么共同的回忆，他们最初的相遇只有几小时，还来不及将彼此的记忆交融；这些细节，不过是一些Sign，征兆，触动心底的某个角落，和某种莫名的、隐晦的、柔软的情绪产生共鸣，心跳突然就漏了几拍，张艾嘉选择“动心”做她电影的名字，真是精准，那样一种牵扯，逃不开也放不下，舍不得也不甘心！

于是，他在婚礼前夕疯狂地寻找她不放过一丝线索，她在蜜月计划前决然重回纽约期待重遇！

——“就象《教父2》那也是很好的，甚至可能比《教父1》更精彩，但你无论如何仍要回头去看1，不能跳过去，否则就是难以释怀的遗憾！

”“希腊人死后不写讣告，他们只问：他(她)生前是否曾有过passion？

”——这个写讣告的男配角演过一个平凡的小人物，像所有的人那样每天被紧张、乏味、无谓的情绪折磨，生命好像纪录片，自己看着也想睡去，一天又一天，经常突然就想哭泣，那是一种对于乏味和虚无的绝望，没有热情，我们靠什么来支撑下去！

别说热情是点缀，是虚幻，是一时头晕，错了，完全错了！

热情，是生命的全部力量！

Sarah听闻Johnson的婚礼取消，禁不住的泪水奔涌；Johnson在漫天雪花纷飞中缅怀自己的热情，蓦然回首，梦中人近在咫尺，不敢相信，不能走动，不会说话，笑不出来……只有眼泪，顺着脸颊流淌！

——这就是我们拼命寻找彼此的原因啊：温柔相伴欢声笑语协调登对甜蜜安稳……不够，都不够！

只有你啊，可以让我像这样哭泣！

我在奔涌的泪水中灿烂地笑，亲爱的，这就是热情！

我们世俗地陌生着，却在超越世俗的高度彼此贴合！

小心翼翼握住对方的手，轻轻说一句：你好！

我是Johnson！

我是Sarah！

无比清晰，不再是一个若有若无的符号，是一种有关热情的宣言——不要再错过啊！

不会再错过了！

Serendipity!

《Serendipity》中文影片名字为《缘分天注定》又或者《情有独钟》，其实我觉得前者的名字更符合剧情。

看到名字，想要在这个下雨天的上午看这部片子，是为了让自己再相信一些，不仅仅是爱情，也包括友情，或者一见倾心的东西，让自己相信可以长久一些。

很俗套的剧情，因为为各自的对象挑选圣诞礼物，同拿一副手套，他们相遇，相识，再相知。

庄一直想要知晓女方的联系方式，而她也十分有个性的让庄把联系方式写在钞票上，再用掉，交换。

并潇洒地说下次当这张钞票到我手上我会联系你，而莎拉最后也告知庄会将自己的联系方式写在《爱在瘟疫蔓延前》（又名《霍乱时期的爱情》）放在旧书屋里。

等他找到可以联系他。

若干年后，种种机缘，他们相互寻找。

最后是一个好结局。

整个烂俗的剧情。

看到这部片子，难免想要和《爱在黎明破晓前》《爱在日落黄昏前》作比较。

显然我爱后者更多。

看片子的过程中我突然觉得这个女主应该是射手座，或者摩羯座。

这些交给命运的事情，只有射手座能做到吧，而后来她坚持的寻找，这样的执着，只有摩羯座才拥有。

其实谁相信呢。

你会相信机缘巧合么。

我是不信的。

如果影片的最后男女都选择了自己本该走的路，各自拥有自己的家庭，你是不是会说“失去的才是最珍贵的”。

然后你会继续说“把它珍藏在心底，什么多么美丽之类的话”。

其实一切后果都是自己所种下的因。

莎拉从一开始想要浪漫一次，震撼一次。

这也注定了她这些年对庄的念念不忘。

虽然结局的确很恶俗。

但电影毕竟是电影，高于生活。

林语堂先生在《京华烟云》里写道：“在人的一生，有些细微之事，本身毫无意义可言，却具有极大的重要性。

事过境迁之后，回顾其因果关系，却发现其影响之大，殊可惊人。

”其实现在想想，之所以会失去，是因为双方中有一方提前放弃。

一个人能够坚持已经很难，更何况是两个人的坚持呢，难上加难。

若你总是对失去的念念不忘，且认为它是最美丽的，那你就连当下也会失去。

如此恶性循环。

于是又一次文艺装逼的陷入自己设下的圈套。

后来不玩浪漫了，不再说什么交给命运的话了。

莎拉知道去追求了。

不再只是等在那里，这是不是她的一种成长呢。

于是命运也就给了她机会。

她找到了庄。

文艺小青年总是笃信这是命运，总是相信浪漫。

莎拉在后来得知庄取笑婚礼后哭了。

其实真有够残忍。

如果她一开始不选择文艺地，浪漫地去把这一切交给命运。

他们也许不会伤害到彼此的未婚妻，未婚夫。

原谅我想问题做事情总是权衡利弊。

就好像我前些天的心境一样。

其实失去他一点也没有必要再让我惋惜。

我努力过了。

虽然依旧未果。

我也没必要无法自拔。

如果我之于他是重要的。

那么也许有一天他会和莎拉一样，找到我。

如果不是，只能说之前的自己只是在自作多情而已。

其实觉得最让我惊喜的是音乐和最后的讣闻而已(特地百度之）Jonathan Trager,prominent television producer for ESPN,died last night from complications of losing his soul mate and his fiance.He was 35 years old and soft-spoken and obsessive.Trager never looked the part of a hopless romantic.But in the final days of his life,he revealed an unknown side of his psyche.This hidden quasi-Jungian persona...surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long-reputed soul mate,a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with.Sadly,the protracted search ended late Saturday night...incomplete and utter failure.Yet even in certain defeat,the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief...that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences.Uh-uh.But rather it's a tapestry of events...that culminate in an exquisite,sublime plan.Asked about the loss of his dear friend, Dean Kansky,the Pulitzer Prize-winning author and executive editor of the New York Times,described Jonathan as a changed man in the last days of his life."Things were clear for him,"Kansky noted.Ultimately, Jonathan concluded that if we are to live life in harmony with the universe,we must all possess a powerful faith in what the ancients used to call"fatum,"-what we currently refer to as destiny.庄纳顿-卓加，有线体育台优秀监制。

即失红颜，复破婚盟，肝肠寸断，遂于昨宵撒手尘寰，享年三十有五，壮君文质彬彬，公尔忘私，平素言行，绝无痴态，孰料，阳寿将尽之际．．．．．．流露鲜为人知的浪漫，刹那惊绝，化作萦回梦魂，遍觅芳踪，历尽一波三折，本性情怀，浮现无遗，呜呼，踏破铁鞋．．．．．．方觉一番心事付东流，语云：匹夫可以夺其爱，不可夺其志，壮君依然坚信．．．．．．人生际遇绝非偶然，冥冥中，上苍早已安排周详，丝毫不爽，其友文坛巨掰，时报主笔甸恩谓．．．．．．壮君晚年脱胎换骨，有所顿悟，一以蔽之．．．．．．欲臻天人合一，须信一字，此字古已有之，于今亦然，唯“缘”而已。

曾经试过跟朋友说,我今天会去某处,他也会去某处,然后看看是否会相遇.结果完全遇不上.悲哀的说一句,我们无缘份啦实际我是相信缘分这一说的,为什么有的人就会在这个时刻出现,你回想倘若那时你的一个决定就会发生一系列改变,也不由得有点后怕.电光火石交汇的一瞬,嘁嘁擦擦迸发出爱.可是没有如这电影一般的情况吧,那剧本设计太完美,怎么可能那样的有缘分,一个月在同一地方遇见同一人的情况都难遇上,何况无姓无名没头苍蝇的寻找呢.此刻遇上便是你我的幸运,也许有婚姻道德的束缚,但是仅仅是为了证明这真是上天安排而一再折腾,对自己过分.对他人也没责任感.假若遇上,不要感叹时间早晚,遇上就是遇上,有了感觉你就上.矫情早晚害自己.缘分天注定,命运看自己

it's bad.it's not a romatice story at all.it's not what the best man should do,and it's not what a 35-yeal-old dude who is gonna be married should do.it's not even funny.serendipity？

fuck that.i only feel bad for that easten music man and that girl Jonassen's gonna marry.btw,Jonassen?it's so much like a girl's name!can 6-hour happiness or fate thing which they call it last long?how come a 35-year-old guy doesn't know that?!oh,i got it.is this story just a fairytale?yeah,he is a jackass.